Baby Steps

Baby Steps

Educate Educate yourself.  If you’ve found yourself here, congratulations, you’re already well on your way!  Read up on your partner’s love language: Words of Affirmation.  Know what it means, how it makes them feel loved, and why it’s important to speak it.  Know your own love language and understand the difficulty in speaking in a…

What is a love language?

What is a love language?

What is a Love Language? The concept of the five love languages comes from Gary Chapman’s book The 5 Love Languages. In his book he outlines 5 main emotional needs (or love languages) that individuals need in a relationship. The five love languages are: Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch…

It all blew up on our family vacation.

After 20 years together, I thought we were doing well.  I guess from her perspective we were not. We knew we had different Love Languages.  I guess I had not been speaking hers (or speaking the opposite) for too long. It was a wake-up call. I immediately went online for help.  There were no resources…