Here is my next installment of the John Gottman Principle #2 Fondness and Admiration Challenge!
Week 3, Day 4:
- Thought: I can recall our wedding and honeymoon.
- Task: Describe one thing about them you enjoyed.
- Response: Because just a few days ago we talked about when we first met, I had dug out one of the first pictures of us together (pre first date even). We’ve talked about our early days together every day since. For today, I carried those conversations forward and talked through being glad we met, worked through our list of issues, and made the decision to marry. Today I expressed gratitude for our actual wedding and honeymoon and said I look forward to celebrating our 20th Anniversary this year.
- Reaction: She said she is looking forward to it too and is glad we are together also.