More wisdom from proverbs:
I’ve found that being hot-tempered with my WoA spouse never pays off. Being patient and choosing words carefully, especially in times of stress or a quarrel, makes a big difference.
Things said in anger are rarely what your WoA spouse needs to hear.
Already screwed up and used harsh words in a moment of quarrel? A sincere apology goes a long way.
I wish I were an expert and had more to offer here but am far from it. What are your tips and tricks?