Fondness and Admiration Challenge: Week 5, Day 3

Here is my next installment of the John Gottman Principle #2 Fondness and Admiration Challenge!

Week 5 Day 3:

  1. Thought: There is a lot of affection between us.
  2. Task: Plan a surprise gift for your mate for tonight.
  3. Response: Valentines Day is coming up.  I was in a time crunch so I used some scissors and cut out a paper heart with an I Love You written on it and posted it in our kitchen where she would find it.
  4. Reaction: She said “Thank you for the heart!”

I also made a heart in the frost on her car (which I used to do frequently when we were dating).  The sun may have come out and melted it by the time she got out there to see it but it made me also remember those cold mornings when we were dating.